BEING A SIDE GIRLFRIEND IS A WASTE OF TIME : Actress Genevieve Nneji — advice young ladies.

He will spend hours with you and still go back to his wife. He will give you a hundred orgasms and tell you to take emergency pills. If you dare get pregnant he will tell you to abort. He will ask you to be faithful to him, when he has someone else.

While you are in the background, he will post photos of his beautiful family, talk highly of his wife and talk about how he loves his children. You are left to wonder about this love he talks about. If he really loves you, why does he make you do all those things to your body and still put you behind the scenes?

How can you even be comfortable being in a relationship that requires you to hide whenever you are with him? You have to keep quiet and listen to him talk to his wife while you lie on his chest.

How do you feel when you call him and he disconnects the line…only to send a text saying. ..”Am with my wife, call you later”? Does he really value you? Does he respect you? Does he love you? The answer to these questions is NO!!

He is just using you, when he gets tired of you, he will throw you away. To him you are just another girl. Wake up my sister and break the curse of being an alternative girlfriend to a man. no man has the right to make you one still you give the reasons to, by accepting his proposal has made him think that you are cheap and your self-exteem has dropped you deserve better.

Men will always come with this proposals, advances to you now it’s up to you, is either to accept or reject it, after all it is your choice to decide if you want or not but I all you do remember that your happiness lies in the decision you make, always think things through before giving out your consent, understand that you are the only one who can make or destroy yourself and future, do not listen to friends who false you into relationships in the name of being taken care of, you can live the life you wish to have if only you can follow your dreams.

Getting the best is never easy anywhere ask the successful people around you, happiness is a sacrifice one must pay before achieving.

In the world we live in today people don’t share their pains but they only share their success stories to encourage people, don’t always be quick draw conclusions till you hear the other side of their story which they don’t feel happy sharing.